in response...

Thank you to all of you who responded to my hypnobirthing post. It was interesting to hear what many of you had to say and some of it has really got me thinking. I have since signed up for a class and we attended our first one on Monday and loved it! I received my book and CDs and have been reading away. I love the class, the books, the philosophy... it is amazing and wonderful.

A lot of you said things like "that is great, but I love my epidural!" ... so true. People do love epidurals and I don't doubt that for a second.

So, why would I go through the effort of learning hypnobirthing when I could also have pain free birth with drugs?

While I have not yet performed this method (or any method of child birthing) my research and learning has shown me a lot. I am definitely not an expert and don't claim to be. But, I wanted to share with you why I want to go this route rather than just what Hypnobirthing is, which was more the purpose of the previous hypnobirthing post. I wish I could just put the entire book in here and have you all read it, but here are some select points:

• Birth is not meant to be painful, our culture/society/history has made it out to be that way. In multiple other countries, women have pain free births daily and think nothing of it because they are not fearful of birth. Women don't grow up their entire lives being told by all the mothers before them that it is painful and horrible. The book has an entire chapter on how birth came to be what it is today in our culture. Also, if any of you took anatomy and remember, the uterus is one of your organs that has different layers of muscles. The "long" muscles push the baby down during a contraction. If your muscles are tensed it doesn't allow the circular muscles below to open and relax the cervix, the two muscle groups are working against eachother and that causes pain. The brain is an extremely powerful thing and has much more impact on your physical body than many of us realize. Endorphins produce a tranquil, amnesiac condition and can have an effect 200 times that of morphine. Not that birthing isn't WORK though, it is lots of work.
  

• "success" rate- here is an excerpt from the forward of my hypnobirthing book:
  

I began "delivering" babies in 1983. I believed in the use of drugs to manage obstetrical pain. In spite of my best efforts to use good sound judgement, I saw lots of complications, including babies with comprimised breathing. I believed that epidurals were a medical blessing for laboring mothers. I had a 25 percent c-section rate.
Many patients demanded natural births, I then performed hundreds of deliveries using pushing and blowing while holding off analgesics until the mother could no longer take the pain. I saw babies that were no longer respiratorily comprimised, but both mother and baby were exhausted... But my c-section rate dropped to 5 percent.
Next, I used visualization and guided imagery with patients to manage pain. On a rare occasion I still had to use narcotics and a rare epidural. I continued to see exhausted babies who were not fully able to bond. I had a c-section rate of 5 percent.
A few years ago I made the transition to Hypnobirthing, and I now truly believe that normal birthing does not have to involve pain. I have attended over 200 births of women... using the techniques and philosophy of Hypnobirthing... I have had no complications. No babies have needed oxygen or any support other than warming by mothers body. My c-section count is three. I have given absolutely no analgesic drugs since I began using Hypnobirthing with mothers.
Lorne R Campbell, Sr., MD

• recovery rate: women who use Hypnobirthing use less physical energy and have much easier recoveries. Also, the epidural takes a little while to wear off... also causing a longer recovery time. Women who use hypnobirthing are often up and walking within minutes if they choose to be. Our teacher told us that she had a mom who was in the shower within 15 minutes (because she wanted to be).
  
• shorter labors - resistance of the birthing muscles as a response to pain and fear is minimized or eliminated in hypnobirthing. Fear causes three physical reactions in the body—tightening of the muscles, reduced blood flow, and the release of catacholamines (hormones that increase the pain and discomfort of childbirth). Also, when your brain is in "fight or flight" mode... as many women experience in birth, the blood is taken away from where it needs to be (the uterus) and is sent to places where it doesn't need to be. Also, epidurals can slow down labor.
  
• epidurals don't always work the way you want them to... and can have nasty side effects.
• Hypnobrithing places so much emphasis on the FAMILY and the special experience that the three (or more) of you will have. It makes birthing such a powerful event in which you don't fear or worry about.
  

The more I read, study, and learn... the more it makes total sense, especially scientifically. All of the above doesn't even come close to the explanation given in the book. I find myself making more and more connections to what I have already learned about the body and mind during the course of education and what the book is about. I am becoming more and more blown away by what the birthing world has sadly become.

I really encourage everyone, whether they want to birth naturally or not, to read Hypnobirthing. It is eye opening on multiple levels.

So yes, I totally understand that many of you love your epidurals. I bet I would love it too if I had one! And I know that it does work most of the time. I am not against people getting epidurals or any other way a person chooses to birth their child. However, this method seems much better than anything else and totally worth it (to me). I am just so excited about all of this and I want to share it with everyone! After all, it is my blog, right?

my crazy hippie birth?

i have told many people i am thinking of hypnobirthing (with MANY different reactions) . i am set on it now, i am just having trouble settling in on a class. i have a very good friend, Lisa, who did it last summer and loved it. she was the one who mentioned it to me last summer and i thought she was so crazy at first. then i got to witness one of my best friends Kim give birth and just thought "i am definitely having an epidural!!!" everyone says childbirth is a horrid and painful thing without drugs. however, people do it all over the world without drugs. our bodies are meant to do it.

when i became pregnant, i got so many more birth stories from people. i started looking into different options and didn't just jump to wanting the drugs like i thought i would. i really feel like hypnobirthing could be a wonderful thing.

i am still skeptical... very much so. and i know that things can happen and i may end up getting an epidural. but, it never hurts to try it. if it doesn't work, i can still get drugs. but, here is an older dramatic dateline story about it. i am not a huge fan of dateline... but hey... it's interesting to watch and many people like to ask lots of questions when i mention it to them, so this might help. as i said, i haven't started classes yet... so this is somewhat new to me too :)

so, maybe i am crazy... but, we'll see what happens when this baby makes his debut. i will be sure to let you know how it goes.